Couples Sex Therapy in California
Being in a relationship can bring up all kinds of challenges, especially around sex and intimacy. Maybe you and your partner feel like roommates instead of lovers, or one of you wants more sex while the other feels shut down. Couples sex therapy gives you a safe space to talk about these struggles openly, without blame, and to start finding your way back to connection, passion, and closeness.
Couples sex therapy is not about figuring out who is right or wrong. It is about reconnecting and creating space for more honesty, intimacy, and playfulness in your relationship. Together, we can work on bringing back the closeness you are missing and building a connection that feels more authentic and passionate.
What we can work on together
Feeling more connected emotionally and sexually
Finding ways to talk about sex, needs, and boundaries without it turning into a fight
Navigating differences in desire or changes in your sexual connection
Rekindling intimacy after having kids, during fertility struggles, or through medical changes
Exploring fantasies, kink, or consensual non-monogamy in safe and affirming ways
Healing from shame, trauma, or past experiences that get in the way of closeness
Bringing more playfulness, pleasure, and ease back into your relationship
How we can meet your goals
Couples therapy with me is not about picking sides or deciding who is right or wrong. It is about slowing down, listening differently, and finding new ways to connect. I create a space where both of you can feel heard, respected, and supported.
We might work on building better communication, exploring intimacy, or untangling old patterns that keep you stuck. I also bring in a sex-positive, ENM and kink aware, and LGBTQIA+ affirming lens, so your desires, identities, and relationship style are always welcome here. My goal is to help you discover what feels authentic, safe, and meaningful in your relationship and to give you tools to carry that connection forward.
You do not have to keep feeling stuck in the same patterns or disconnected from your partner. Therapy can be a place to rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and find new ways of being together.
